TL;DR
Run cool (not cold) water over any burn for a full 20 minutes. Don't use ice, butter, oil, toothpaste, or ointments. Cover with cling film or a clean dry cloth. Go to the ER for any burn larger than your child's palm, burns on face/hands/feet/genitals, burns that look white/leathery/charred, or any burn on a baby under 12 months. Otherwise, treat with cool water + over-the-counter pain meds + watching for infection. Don't pop blisters. Don't peel skin.
Emergency. For any large burn, burns covering joints or the face, burns from electricity or chemicals, or any burn in a baby under 12 months: call 911 or go to the nearest ER. Severe burns can cause shock and fluid loss that's life-threatening, especially in small children. Don't waste time on home treatment for major burns; start cool water and call for help simultaneously.
The thing every parent gets wrong about burns: how long you need to run cool water. The answer is 20 full minutes. Not 30 seconds. Not 2 minutes. Twenty minutes of cool running water in the first hour after the burn cuts tissue damage dramatically. It's the single most effective thing you can do, and most parents quit at minute 3 because their toddler is screaming and the situation feels urgent.
Toddlers get burns from a small list of repeat offenders: pulling a cup of hot coffee or tea off a counter, grabbing a stove burner or oven door, touching curling irons, putting a hand into bath water that wasn't tested, splashing in hot foods/drinks, and electrical outlets.
The first 60 seconds: stop the burn
Before treatment, remove the source:
- Move your child away from the heat source. Off the stove, away from the curling iron, out of the hot bath water.
- Remove burned clothing if it comes off easily. DO NOT pull at clothing that's stuck to skin. Cut around it with scissors.
- Remove jewelry, watches, anything tight. Burns swell. A bracelet on a burned wrist can become a tourniquet.
- Note the time. Burn time helps medical providers later.
Cool water: 20 minutes
This is the single most important treatment. Cool running tap water (about 60 to 75 F, NOT cold or icy) flowing over the burn for 20 full minutes in the first hour.
Why so long:
- The first few minutes flush off whatever caused the burn.
- The next 15 minutes cool the deeper tissue layers. Burn injury continues for minutes after the source is removed; cooling stops it.
- Studies show 20 minutes of cool water within the first hour reduces scarring, infection, and need for grafting.
- Even up to 3 hours later, cool water still helps. It's never "too late" to cool the burn (but the sooner the better).
How to do it with a toddler:
- For arm or hand burns: hold the area under the kitchen sink or shower head with cool running water.
- For leg or foot burns: sit in the bathtub, run cool water over the area, OR submerge in a basin of cool water with running flow.
- For torso burns: shower with cool water (low pressure, gentle).
- For face burns: wet cool cloths repeatedly held to the face. Don't direct a shower at the face.
Important: DO NOT USE ICE. Ice causes blood vessels to constrict, which can deepen the burn. Cool water only.
Yes, your toddler will scream. Cool water on a burn hurts at first. Distract them with a story, a video, a song, a treat. Just don't quit at 5 minutes.
Assessing the burn severity
First-degree burn (superficial)
- Red, dry skin.
- Painful but not blistered.
- Like a mild sunburn.
- Heals in 3 to 7 days without scarring.
Home treatment usually sufficient.
Second-degree burn (partial thickness)
- Red, swollen, wet-looking skin.
- Blisters.
- Very painful.
- Heals in 2 to 3 weeks; may scar.
Small ones (smaller than your child's palm) can be home-treated if not on critical body areas. Larger ones need medical evaluation.
Third-degree burn (full thickness)
- White, leathery, or charred-looking skin.
- May look waxy or sunken.
- Often LESS painful (nerve endings destroyed).
- Will not heal without medical care; usually needs skin grafting.
Always ER. Always.
When to go to the ER
For ANY burn that meets these criteria:
- Bigger than the child's palm (in any dimension).
- On the face, hands, feet, or genitals. These areas have high consequences for healing and function.
- On a joint (shoulder, elbow, wrist, knee, ankle).
- Looks white, leathery, charred, or waxy. Third-degree.
- Caused by electricity (always ER, even if visible damage looks small).
- Caused by chemicals (always ER, after flushing the area thoroughly).
- Circles around a limb (a "circumferential" burn can cut off circulation as it swells).
- Any burn on a baby under 12 months (their skin is thinner; what looks small can be deeper than it appears).
- Burns in the airway (singed nostril hair, hoarse voice, coughing soot, burns inside the mouth from hot liquid). These can swell and close off the airway.
- You're not sure. When in doubt, go.
What to do after the cool water
For a burn you're treating at home:
- Pat dry gently with a clean cloth. Don't rub.
- Cover with cling film (plastic wrap). Loosely. NOT tight. Cling film is the recommended first dressing because it's clean, doesn't stick to the burn, and lets you see the wound underneath.
- Or use a clean dry cloth (a clean tea towel or pillowcase works).
- Give pain medication. Ibuprofen or acetaminophen at the right dose. See our Motrin dose calculator.
- Keep the area elevated if possible to reduce swelling.
- Watch for signs of infection over the next 7 to 14 days (redness spreading, increased pain, pus, fever).
Need the right Motrin or Tylenol dose?
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What NOT to do
- Don't use ice. Cool water only.
- Don't apply butter, oil, toothpaste, egg whites, honey, or any food. These trap heat in and increase infection risk. The folk remedy of butter on a burn is one of the most damaging things you can do.
- Don't apply antibiotic ointment for the first 24 hours. It traps heat. After 24 hours, a thin layer of bacitracin or similar can be helpful.
- Don't apply aloe to a fresh burn. Aloe is fine for healing later, but in the first 24 hours, it can trap heat. Cool water first; aloe day 2 onward.
- Don't pop blisters. Blisters are the body's natural protective dressing. Popping them increases infection risk. Let them break on their own; if they break, leave the skin attached as long as possible.
- Don't peel any skin that's loose. Same reason.
- Don't use cotton balls or gauze that will stick. Anything sticky is hard to remove later and damages new skin underneath.
- Don't wrap tightly. Loose, breathable coverings only.
The "rule of palms" for burn size
Your child's open palm (with fingers) is roughly 1% of their total body surface area. Use this to estimate burn size:
- 1% palm = small burn, usually home-treatable if not on critical areas.
- 2 to 5% (2 to 5 palm areas) = needs medical evaluation today.
- 5 to 10% = ER.
- Over 10% = 911. This is a major burn that requires emergency fluid resuscitation.
Specific burn scenarios
Hot liquid spill (coffee, tea, soup)
Most common toddler burn. Action:
- Remove clothing immediately if it's not stuck (clothing holds heat against skin).
- Cool running water for 20 minutes.
- Assess severity.
- ER if widespread (often hot liquid burns cover a large area as it splashes).
Stove or oven burn
Usually a focused contact burn on the hand.
- Cool water 20 minutes.
- If small and on the palm/finger pads, home-treat with pain meds and cling film.
- If on the back of the hand or palm bigger than a quarter, evaluate at ER (hand burns scar and reduce function if not treated well).
Bath water burn (scald)
Often a major emergency. Bath water above 120 F can cause third-degree burns in seconds for a child.
- Remove from the water.
- Cool running water 20 minutes (use cool, not cold).
- ER. Scald burns often look superficial at first and are deeper than they appear. Always be evaluated.
Prevention: set water heater to 120 F max. Always test bath water with your wrist or elbow (more heat-sensitive than the back of your hand) before placing your child in.
Electrical burn
Always ER, even if the entry/exit wound looks small. Electrical burns cause internal damage along the current path. Watch for cardiac arrhythmias.
- Make sure your child is no longer in contact with the electrical source.
- Call 911.
- Begin CPR if needed.
- Don't apply water to active electrical contact (can conduct).
Chemical burn
Bleach, oven cleaner, drain cleaner, batteries (the contents from a leaking battery).
- Flush with copious running water for AT LEAST 20 minutes. The cleaner of the substance, the longer.
- Remove contaminated clothing while flushing.
- Call Poison Control (1-800-222-1222) for guidance.
- ER for any chemical burn.
Sunburn
The slow-cooking burn most parents don't realize they're treating as a burn.
- Cool baths for 15 minutes, several times a day.
- Aloe vera gel (the pure stuff).
- Cool moisturizer (lotion in the fridge).
- Pain medication.
- Plenty of fluids.
- Don't pop any blisters.
- ER for: severe blistering, fever, severe pain, dehydration signs, lethargy, or blistering on babies under 12 months.
The next 14 days
After a burn:
- Wash gently daily with mild soap and water.
- Apply a thin layer of bacitracin or petroleum jelly after the first 24 hours.
- Cover with a non-stick dressing if it's in a high-contact area.
- Watch for infection: increasing redness around the burn, pus, fever, increasing pain, red streaks heading away from the burn.
- Keep out of direct sun (healing burn skin sunburns easily) for at least 6 months.
Healing usually takes 1 to 3 weeks for second-degree burns. The new skin will be pink for several months. Apply sunscreen aggressively on healed burn skin (it can scar darker if sun-exposed during healing).
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Reviewed by a pediatric emergency physician · Aligned with American Burn Association guidance · Updated May 2026